Pet Loss Support

RAINBOW BRIDGE

Just this side of Heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.

There are meadows and hills for all our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill or old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days gone by.

The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; his eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling to each other in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together.

~ Author Unknown

OF COURSE YOU CAN CRY

When you lose your best friend, the one you could always count on to be there when you were down, the one who warmed you, played with you, and made you laugh no matter how bad you felt, then of course you can cry.

Your other friends may not understand how painful it is for you to lose your pet, but only you know how strong the bond was between you. No one has the right to judge your sorrow.

Some of the people you know will understand your feelings because they have pets of their own that they love. If they are willing to listen, tell them about your pet— the good times, the bad times and the way that it ended. Talking about your loss will help you feel better.

In recognition of the loving bond you shared with your pet, you might also make a memorial contribution in his or her memory to an humane organization. Your generosity will help protect unwanted, abandoned and abused pets.

People use ceremonies to mark important passages in their lives. One way to recognize your pet’s death is to hold a memorial service. You may do this alone, standing in the woods or by your pet’s favorite creek or pond. Bring a cherished photograph to symbolize your pet. Say a prayer or read a poem that expresses your feelings. Leave kitty treats or flowers as a gift of remembrance. Let yourself feel the pain and the loss, and appreciate all the time you had together.

And remember, of course you can cry.

~The American Humane Society